How do we keep small hurts from building up? How do we forgive when we don't feel like it? Here is a down-to-earth look at forgiveness as we experience it -- or don't -- in our marriages. Bill and Pam Farrel speak honestly about
-- what forgiveness is and isn't
-- finding the motivation to forgive when you're steaming mad
-- the toll bitterness takes
-- conversational techniques to help you ask for forgiveness
-- ways to rebuild trust with your spouse
-- how to restore passion when there have been hurts
-- forgiving even when your spouse doesn't want forgiveness
-- keeping the slate clean

How do we stay in love? Asking and offering forgiveness is at the center. It is possible. Here's how.